Published in Joy@Work·Feb 22Are you In Control or Controlling? Part 2: Digging the Roots of Controlling, Stress and Performance AnxietyA quick recap of Part One of this series, where we learned how your Locus of Control Impacts the Choices that you Make — the extent to which you believe that you, as opposed to external forces, have control over your life. And how someone with an external locus of…7 min read
Published in Joy@Work·Feb 22Everyone experiences stress and performance anxiety.Everyone experiences stress and performance anxiety. Nobody likes it, and some people suffer terribly from it. Some stress is necessary for our survival. As cave dwellers, stress and anxiety caused by external threats were excellent drivers of…7 min read
Published in Joy@Work·Jan 10How to enjoy a happy and successful year aheadHow to enjoy a happy and successful year ahead Double Blessings to you this new year. Ask what they want from the coming new year and most people are seeking to be happy and successful in the year ahead. We see the new year as a fresh start where we…Intent2 min read
Published in Joy@Work·Jan 10Hope and Mirrors — AdvantEdge Joy@Work PodcastWell, 2021 was an interesting ride, don’t you think? I recall chatting with so many people at the end of 2020 and we were all so looking forward to 2021, wishing for a much better year and… well it could have been worse I suppose. Like everyone else, you want…Hope2 min read
Apr 27, 2021Wise leaders know to fix these three things before expecting trust and collaboration in their team.Wise leaders know to fix these three things before expecting trust and collaboration in their team. Purpose: Trust has flat-lined in recent months, thanks largely to the lack of physical interaction. Plus the small detail that this pandemic has massively damaged the global economy threatening jobs and business survival. And without trust, there’s no chance of collaboration (in spite of all the wonderful tools to support…Trust6 min read
Oct 2, 2020What does the future hold for trust and collaboration?Nothing gets done in a single silo or department anymore. Constant collaboration and trust are at a premium because everything worth doing is always led by cross-functional teams. Now, the essential foundations of Collaboration and Trust are deteriorating. As leaders, we need to act now and stop the slide. …Virtual Leadership8 min read
Published in Leadership AdvantEdge·Aug 2, 2020The H2H Interface — How People Think — EyesYour brain is magnificent. It’s also limited. And it’s also a gas guzzler! There is so much going on in the world around you right at this moment, that you cannot possibly, consciously process all that information. It would just be totally overwhelming. To cope and save essential gas (energy) for other things, every…Coaching5 min read
Published in Leadership AdvantEdge·Jul 31, 2020LA 081: What To Do When You Are Not Truly Appreciated(And Get Your Own Back!) Encourage I’m going to take a wild guess here that your work and your life has become more demanding. Furthermore, I can be pretty certain that you feel under-valued. I’ll even dare to suggest that your pay is not the main issue in feeling under-valued, rather it’s because it seems…Appreciation11 min read
Published in Leadership AdvantEdge·Jul 24, 2020The Astounding Power of the PausePart 1 of a series on “How to Play Politiks Without Losing Your Soul — More clients than not tell me that they don’t like to play politics at work. Indeed, most work politics have a terrible reputation. But they are a fact of working life. So you had better get wise and know how to play the game and yes, you can do so…Geeksandnerds6 min read
Jun 19, 2020How to Be an Effective Buddy CoachCoaching a colleague, a team member or anyone you know well is a challenging situation. For example, a manager usually conducts the performance review for their staff focusing on their performance in the job and team which may lead to a recommendation about salary or promotions. …Leadership7 min read